That’s not quite what I said. It seems like in a couple of your threads, you’re trying to convince people that you are inferior. Well, if you are inferior, whatever that means, as a total entity, then that could be seen as a justification for the women ignoring you. Yet, on some level, you’re angry about that. So some part of you must think you’re not inferior. And then you say there’s nothing you can do to change the situation other than death or not doing anything about it. It’s in the women’s hands. They ignore you. Yeah, but maybe they ignore you because you’re walking around feeling like you’re inferior. Maybe they ignore you because they don’t know you. Part of the reason I suggested that you look at things that you love other than that is we become…ourselves when we do the things that we love or that we’re interested in, and we have a kind of charisma even in that, we have our own life. We’re more than just that guy is attracted to me, and that’s it. Or that, it’s even more broad than that. That guy’s attracted to me and some percentage of other women. That’s all they would know about you. But if you have some interest that you pursue, even if it’s boring to them, you have life energy. You have drive. You are somebody. You have a life that they could potentially connect to. Now, I know you’re talking about sex, but it works even for casual encounters. I mean, right now you’re presenting people with, there’s nothing you can do except die. Well, I can’t see the harm in seeing if there might be other options. And those other options need to come out of you. It’s not necessarily doing something so, or at least not purely so they will find you attractive. It’s about finding your own life force. You’re not just here to have sex with women you don’t know well. There’s other things inside you that want to engage in processes. The more of those processes you engage in, whatever it is, hobbies, vocations, interests, the more you’re engaged in those things, the more dynamism that comes off of you. The more you have a life, the more you’re interesting.
I must be inferior if they ignore me and don’t feel sexual feelings towards me. And I love music just as much as sex but sex is more important emotionally to me and yes I feel angry about it because it’s a want that isn’t happening no matter how emotionally powerful that want is.
I don’t think that’s true. If you try to demonstrate it, perhaps I’ll see some flaws in the argument, perhaps I’ll be convinced. And why are you in some permanent state? And why advance it to ‘inferior’? Women are not at this time coming to you for sex? And they are turning you away (?) when you ask them out? What is the process here? How do you know and what are you doing in relation to women? And is this all women, or just the women you are attracted to? Are there women who aren’t getting hit on? Are they your responsibility? What could they do to change the situation?
Do you listen to music, make music? What else do you love? What could you do with your love of music you are not doing now?
I don’t want a boyfriend that’s gonna be drama, (when you’re doing talk to text it rhymes to say drama and comma), I have a truck, and I’m something like 48 years old and I’m almost probably 49. I think that puts me in the very superior category, by your estimation.
I’ll accept the compliment.
I’ll try to explain I see Women outside and on dating apps that I find attractive they don’t respond to me sexual feelings simple as. And I listen and study music that’s it I don’t have money to buy an instrument I could steal one but I don’t like the risk.
You wouldn’t like my life being male being 24 not having a car having hypersexuality Infact most people who live in Canada and the United States wouldn’t like my life.
24 is very young. I would not date a 24-year-old unless they had some freakish thing about them that made them very mature compared to other 24-year-olds, and I just don’t see that happening.
Pick one/both:
a) No offense.
b) You’re off the hook.
I am inferior compared to you and other people with the same things and this is permanent discussion over.
Dating apps are very limited. You have to decide now and fast and looks get a higher priority. Is there a way to get in the presence of women with low stakes? Common activities that are not dates but groups.
…you can take the bus to church or walk if it’s local enough. Then you could get involved in a singles/college group if they have one in that church, or join a home group or Bible study geared towards that age range. You could look on their website if it has information about them, or just get to know the people in service during their regular services (not always Sunday morning). Try not to mention the hypersexual thing upfront. Everybody already knows that about everybody, and it comes off sounding a little weird.
Seek first the kingdom, Skywalker.
There is yes but I’m introverted and don’t like people unless it’s something that I like such as a thrift store or grocery store or record store but I don’t talk to people deeply because they don’t care.
I appreciate the input and I’ve did that before going to Catholic and Mormon Church services they weren’t bad but I’ve stopped because I find religion unfulfilling.
Subject change. What do you love about Philosophy?
Thinking I love thinking about coming up with things that no one else has thought about and thinking about profound things that everyone else has thought about.
Well, working in a record store could do something or a thrift store, but the music store offers more. Many people love music and not so deep conversations can arise slowly and naturally.
If you think it’s all over and there’s no hope and you’re inferior, well, there’s not a lot to talk about.
Despite the reality being emotionally horrible at times I’m still alive Infact no one can care about me and I’m still physically alive.
You know there are other people who feel that way? Why don’t you go show them you care?
Indeed their probably is I just can’t find them anywhere.
Erm. Church.
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