Not having a car means you can’t go to places really fast and you do not have an extension of your personality. Not having a girlfriend or boyfriend makes you inferior because you are lonely and being lonely is bad. And finally being under 30 makes you inferior because most people on earth are over the age of 30 so that automatically makes them Superior because they are in the majority. And also they know more stuff because they’ve been around longer.
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You sound very depressed, why?
I have been where you are, it does get better even when you think it never will.
What does my personal feelings have to do with any arguments presented.
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It seems life experiences are shaping your remarks and opinions here.
I am not trying to judge you, simply understand.
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Close but it’s not life experiences it’s life observations.
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It’s probably better for the environment if somebody just drives an Uber everywhere. And the budget maybe, I don’t know, if they don’t have anywhere else to go usually. Like if they work from home ‘cause they’re a freaking nerd and they can do that.
Everybody is lonely, even if they have a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Unless they’re an introvert like me and they’re like super happy they don’t have to put up with somebody’s bull crap. I do wish I had someone to take me to nature, but that someone has their head stuck up their butt for the rest of their life, so oh well.
Weird fact that contradicts the rest of your post, which you probably already knew:
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Not having a car means you don’t have to buy expensive gas, pay ongoing insurance, pay parking fees and fines, and maintain that car. Not having a girlfriend or boyfriend mean you have a challenge, it doesn’t necessarily say anything about your value at all. Being in the minority as far as age means very little. Everyone over 30 was once under 30, so it says nothing about essential value. They know more stuff or they have hardened into habits that will carry them toward death. All of them would like to be under 30 and many are doing whatever they can to get ‘younger’.
Are you trying to convince yourself you are of low value?
Are you parodying the values of others?
Is this what the voice in your head says?
Why work so hard against yourself?
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Those aren’t observations, they are value judgments. It has a real let’s see what I can find to negatively categorize myself.
Those things are the opposite of what I have so they must be better.
If you mean life sucks for you now, so if someone has a very different life from you, it can only be positive, I sort of get what you mean. But the fact is that some of those people may be just almost more conceptual than actually alive. Who knows? They’re driving around their car and they have a sense of life and they’re completely wrong and their own life is ill-suited to themselves and they’re stressed about paying off their all the bills surrounding the car. You know, who knows? I mean, what do you actually like? What do you like to do? What are you interested in? What values do you have? Like, let’s say you had a girlfriend and you had sex with her. Great. Okay. What else would be in your life? What else would you want? What other activities? What are you passionate about beyond getting that? And don’t get me wrong, for me personally, I think that that’s central, having that person that you love, and it includes sex. I’m not saying that that’s of small value. I’m just trying to get at what is the rest of your life. I mean, it’s possible that if you kind of got other things going that you consider of high value to you, not as high a value as the woman, but high value, then maybe that’s a life that will be attractive to somebody else.
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No of course not there are other things that I like in life but the most meaningful thing to me is sex that comes above All Else the close second would be music and entertainment but other than that no I don’t have anything in life nothing really worth living for anyway that feels objective.
you’re getting your threads mixed up
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I am thanks for pointing that out out.
I’m not sure that we live for objective reasons. I think we live for subjective reasons. That said, I’m not saying that anything should matter as much, but there must be other things that you like, and those things give life energy, direction. They connect you to people who are also interested. In other words, those other desires can lead to a base in which a woman finds you attractive or can even find you at all.
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About 80% of the world at least does not own a car. Does that make them superior? You have some internal friction in the things you’re writing here.
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If that is true then why do most people in Canada and the United States own a car ?
Those are first world countries.
Do you really want to prove you are inferior? If you are angry at women for not having sex with you, you must side with yourself in some way. If you are trying to prove you are inferior then you’re sort of justifying the idea that it’s fine if you are outside sex.
What can you do to change the situation?
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Most people in the world aren’t in those countries lol
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What does that even mean justifying the idea outside of sex ? And there’s nothing I can do to change the situation other than death or not doing anything about it it’s in the women’s hand’s they ignore me.