Ok so…heres the question…
Ok, try to follow this hypothetical here…
Like…if you lived in…Liverpool and then you wanted more than anything to live in London someday. Ok so like lets say you have a decent job in Liverpool but you can accept a not so decent job in London. Do you do the smart thing and stay in Liverpool until there is a better job offer in London OR do you go ahead and just move to London, accepting a worse job and begin to build your life in London while trying to find a better job?
The other option is to stay in Liverpool with the steady decent job, continue to stay there until you find a better job in London. If in fact you do not find a better job in London, then you stay in Liverpool, forever and ever.
Also, about kids…like do you just go ahead and have a kid while you can because there will be a day when you will be too old to have them, even though you cant really afford them and its not the right time. Or do you wait for the right time to have a kid, and in doing so, risk the possibility of never having any??
What is the happier, wiser path of life??