Of course society can be defied…You have to be smart sometimes genius to avoid the consequences/punishments for having a spine though.
This is why I try to keep the levels of my crimes equal with my obility to avoid punishment.
I wanted a relationship. It came to me, I did not take it.
I wanted a Job, I worked for it. I did not force myself into it.
I want people to think that I’m a nice guy, (thats something that you cant force)
I sometimes want people to come round my house and have a good time, can’t force that.
These are just a few small examples. I can think of many more, your statment is false
God weather illusion or real helped me.