Pussy isn’t free in the Sexocracy either, but beautiful females are encouraged to become sexual service providers by the reward system and so there is a lot more pussy available and accessible. And there’s beautiful cock too for gay men and straight females.
The many social conservatives around the world will never allow it to happen. Not only that, women like men dumb, stupid, gullible, and naive to be led around the nose.
A vast majority of them will never admit or come out publicly with their sexual exploits over men. That would ruin their whole deceptive edge over men while feigning ignorance and innocence by gender ploy. Good luck trying to get women as a whole to give that up.
I hear what you’re saying, but it will never happen.
I don’t know what the joy is of fucking with some random pussy you don’t even know and have no connection with. It’s mostly just going to be a battle to get over the air of awkwardness more than anything else. Porn is a delusion, a witches trick. It presents a false utopia, a fantasy experience behind a screen, with no actual connection to reality. It’s fucking people up mentally. Like people crashing pileup trucks into dead ends.
Porn is merely a symptom of a sexually repressed world especially of a largely disenfranchised male population unable to afford the social economic commodification of sex and social relationships in general.
You’ll notice women are not represented in that repressed demographic or category.
A male creates porn videos thinking this makes him free. But he is only a slave to what culture dictates of him. He need not be himself Monarch programmed, the brainwashing is already in place around him.
The males of this population will rather buy porn than buy a prostitute. Porn is a witches trick, a black hole. It is not merely the result of sexual frustration. It causes sexual frustration.
The fucking is the connection. Just penis connected to pussy. He doesn’t need to tell her he ‘has feelings for her’. He doesn’t need to meet her parents. He doesn’t need to insist to her father that his ‘intentions’ towards her are ‘honorable’. He doesn’t need to get on one knee and propose. He doesn’t need to pay a fortune for a big wedding dress. He doesn’t need to have children with her.
No awkwardness just a blissful sense of fulfilment.
Porn is just images designed to create sexual arousal in the viewer. That’s it. Nothing wrong with images, nothing wrong with sexual arousal, nothing wrong with porn.
A spell, a trap. If you watch cartoons dealing with witch culture you’ll get the gist.
I know a man who would spend 2000 dollars on porn videos but not a single dime on a prostitute. Other men would rather spend their money on gizmos and gadgets, or fancy dinners on a woman, or throwing money at a stripper, any excuse not to buy a prostitute, then they complain about their lack of sex. Like that Eliot Rogers kid who spent 5000 dollars on guns and ammo, complains about his lack of sex, then kills himself before he has sex.
Deep down it’s because none of them actually want to have sex, they are feminized, and real-life sex actually scares them. But masterbation in front of a screen makes them feel comfortable, and in their split sense of reality they can’t tell the difference between real life and computer screen. So they get mad at others when they cant tell its their own self that is subconsciously diverting them from getting sex.
Let’s take your logic a bit futher. Drugs are just molecules. Molecules are just shapes and patterns of atoms. Drugs are meant to stimulate the mind. There’s nothing wrong with shapes and patterns, or stimulating the mind, and there’s nothing wrong with drugs.
Stop using words like “wrong” to describe drugs. The word you’re looking for is damaging. And that’s what we’re debating. not all drugs are damaging, so calling porn a drug gets you nowhere.
It takes years to undo the neurological and hormonal tangle of sexual famine and porn, the resentment and frustration. Women can’t understand.
Sex, for men, at times, is more important than oxygen. The calm and well-being we get from ejaculating into the pussy of a hot young girl is something they can’t understand. You completely lose yourself, and you feel immortal and cloaked in a kind of buzzing, ecstatic agony. It’s like being a king, a God, for ten seconds. And the absence of it feels shameful, like you’re dead to the world, a joke, left out, humiliated, defeated. There is, I think, a subconscious sense of your future children and grandchildren being slaughtered before your eyes. Knowing other guys are getting it and you’re not, that you’re not chosen, is hell.
There’s a scene in a dumb movie called Sanctum, where the guy is trapped in a cavern underground, it fills with water. To survive, he floated at the ceiling, sucking down bubble after bubble of air pockets. Trixie, you don’t know what porn is. Only a guy knows what porn is. No guy chooses porn over a meaningful relationship. We choose porn over death.
Depending on your self-image, and how you make meaning (and a lot about this is existential, like anything else) there are a few paths you can take. There is the path of resentment, which leads to stilted body language and conversation, which leads to more sexual starvation and pain.
There is the path of blunt force: rape is the dark side of this spectrum and is the path for monsters and sociopaths, or the severely damaged. i often hear it said rape is not about sex, and i suspect this is true. while it was probably a common and even functional approach a few thousand year ago, like it is with animals, today is it considered grotesque, as it should be, and not functional anyway. because i have empathy i can’t pretend to understand it any more than i could understand the mindset of a killer. i’m thinking more about the date rape scenarios in frat houses – i’m pretty sure that has a dimwitted sexual component, as sick as that is.
prostitution is a genuine option. but as horny as i got, i never went that route. prostitutes, to me, seem used up, kind of gross, like their mind is turned off and all men become “johns.” I get that same empty feeling i get at a rock concert, where ten thousand people are looking at one guy on a stage, and i begin to realize that i am but a grain of sand in a crowd of faceless acolytes. this might just be me, i don’t know. I also feel prostitutes are abused and sad themselves, and possible dangerous. i’ve never been to one. but if there was a situation where it was clean and professional, and they seemed happy, who knows, maybe i would have done it. there is an argument that you, with your vision, could start a wonderful brothel in amsterdam, and run it the way you see fit. You’d make a fortune, since you know the hearts of men.
creating a socio-philosophical thought experiment is probably the most benign side of the spectrum, it requires no action, no risk. it’s a way to place the blame on society and feel exonerated. it’s where the world addresses the pain of sexual starvation and shapes itself around these needs. It’s a brilliant idea in theory, it’s like sexual communism. Each to their need, each their ability, but with sex. It’s the CUMmunist Manifesto.
But like the collapse of the Soviet Union, this too, will prove to be an unrealistic dream, for thew same reasons. human nature involves competition. Hot women will not give up the pussy to just anyone. Strong men will always find a way to fuck the hottest women. Your system will be disgusting, full of bureaucratic loopholes and abuses, and the infamous bread lines will become the notorious sex lines, having one thing in common: yeast.
The hard thing about hard things is you have to be strong. You have to hang in there. You have to fail, over and over, and fail again, and die a thousand deaths, and keep going. If you’re not getting laid, it might be because you’re too smart or too sensitive to play “the game.” This is actually a plus, it makes you attractive to anyone who’s worth a damn. You’re a brainy guy. Find a brainy, sensitive girl who reads. I guarantee she’s out there and she’ll fuck the paint off your patio if you show her the real you. Trixie, pls tell him.
I’m old and this hasn’t been an issue for me, for what, 20 years? For me sex is just a healthy way to connect to someone i love, one of many ways.
Disgust towards males is a function of intelligence. Most women masturbate to mostly lesbian porn. Most everyone, male and female, are naturally averse to male gay porn. This is why dumb girls are easier to flirt with and seduce, and intelligent women take longer to court, because they have to overcome their own disgust, and because disgust towards men is a function of intelligence. So an intelligient male finding a brainy female will not be an “insta-fuck” but an even bigger challenge.
I am aware of the short"come"ings of testosterone. It is a boon to creativity, but also has its own form of sexual hell. You do not realize that the chemical estrogen is hellish as well. Humans are better off mentally before they go through puberty. It’s no coincidence, that most people end up their first time in the mental ward around puberty time.
As for porn, its is a drug and crutch. Men were better off 100 years ago when their was no porn. Porn presents certain stylized, hypersexualized camera angles that presents unattainable scenarios. It increases sexual frustration more than it relieves it. The only way porn is healthy is if you watch it once every 3 months, tops. It can be a medicine, like most drugs. However most people abuse drugs.
I hear this a lot and maybe it’s somewhat true. but here’s a finer point on it, in case you care:
Both drugs and crutches have their place in society. Again, using these words as an implied negative is an embedded fallacy.
You have no idea if men were better off. I don’t even know what this thing is, “men” that you refer to. I am not a “men.” And i don’t comment on estrogen, you should think twice before you comment as an authority on testosterone.
The scenarios in porn, and plenty more are indeed attainable, in vivid technicolor real-D, and I’ve attained them all. I don’t know why this myth persists that porn is SOOOOO different from reality. It’s not that different from a man’s reality. Sex has a range. Sex isn’t all slow missionary with gentle eye contact, although the best of it is. Porn to sex is like a romance movie is to romance. While larger than life, a lot of it is quite identifiable and true.
It both increases the frustration AND increases the release.
Your once every three month prescription is arbitrary nonsense. Everybody is different and porn can be fine. I’ve watched plenty of porn and I’m fine. You’ve watched plenty and you’re fine.
All this aside I agree it can be a crutch and hold certain guys back. But your blanket statements aren’t getting us closer to the truth of what’s happening with Sexocracy man, they’re more about your own psychology and issues.
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Romance movies are nothing like romance. Porn is nothing like real sexual encounters. They are scripted, fake scenarios, with bad acting that has no basis nor will ever occur like reality.
For example, love songs are nothing like actual romance tactics. Men do not ever repeat or emulate the behavoirs portrayed in love songs in real life, because they are pathetically bad tactics.
I don’t believe youve attained all the scenarios in porn, not even Hugh Hefner or James Bond has, and if you have, good for you.
LOL. “Fine” people don’t make threads complaining about how hard it is to be guy. “Fine” people don’t go to Thailand and get sex-changes.
Yes, that’s fine. There is nothing wrong with drugs. Although not all drugs stimulate the mind, only psychoactive drugs. And psychoactive drugs aren’t ‘meant’ to stimulate the mind, they just do.
You’ll notice it’s almost always directed at males.
That’s because once again males are the most sexually repressed in modern societies.
Sex in modern society is used quite thoroughly on a psychological level to control male populations and keep them in line on a socio economic front.
Just another reason how sex along with all social relationships have gone through what I like to call commodification. Commodification through purchasement.