If my attraction to women is the most essential aspect of what it is to be me, then surely I’d become a lesbian. But what if it’s my attraction to straight women that’s the most essential aspect of myself? In that case maybe I’d be a lesbian with a big problem.
It’d be cool to say, ‘lesbian,’ but since I am heterosexual as a male, I imagine that the heterosexuality would be more likely to carry over, not the desire for women.
I’d probably behave in a similar manner as I do now, which by the puritanical measures of people like Pandora would be judged a “slut” – where I a woman, of course.
Though that may be wishful thinking. As society places a much higher premium on feminine virtue (and I’m not so naive as to believe myself above the societal hive-mind), it is entirely likely that my behavior as a woman would be different from my behavior as a man. And my “entirely likely” I mean “almost certainly”.
Not a problem! My grandad was a farmer his whole life, and he made the observation: “Sex is like building a fence. You have to remember that the post always rots before the hole.” :-"
I don’t know that we were necessarily to get into semantics or anything Philosophical here, but I assumed the OP to be asking in the context of, “If you were never a man to begin with,” because if that’s not the case, I’m going to have to say that I’d probably technically be a lesbian since I already am married to a woman…