Svikami stated:
"Nope. You should read up on some logic you know.
By default, we assume no patterns. So if you make a claim (that when people get bored of other people, they turn to science), it is you who should provide the evidence, not me. The onus of proof is on the claimant.
Otherwise your claim aint a valid one ! "
You are wrong when you say we assume no patterns. This is exactly the problem with a good majority of people I have known, it appears that everyone works by patterns. When something happens to you in a given situation, we instinctively believe that the same thing will happen when a similar situation occurs. Our thought processes are based on patterns, our lives work on patterns. Patterns are what leads to answers, theories, and discoveries. Assumptions is something everyone I have seen on the messaging board do, so when you say ‘we’, you should define clearly the group of people that are on such a higher level of consciousness that they never assume any kind of patterns by default at any time in their lives.
Natsilicious was expressing her opinion on a matter.
You are quite correct in stating that the onus is on her to prove her statement correct, but she didn’t claim it to be some kind of absolute truth, she simply posted a quotation. You responded with:
Svikami:
“And as for the bored of other people bit, its not even a stereotype, so please enlighten me on how you came to that conclusion. Do you have any statistics to back your claim or did you just think you can assert it and people would accept it ? Surely you cant be that naive, on a science forum ???”
Who do you think you are talking to people like that!?! You go around telling people what to read up on and make claims that we don’t even know
0.00001% of what has been discovered. WELL BACK THAT UP!
You sarcastically ask her to enlighten you with her explanation of the quotation, when the quotation itself was suppose to enlighten you. You chose the path of the ‘projector’ which I’m sure a scientific person like yourself knows that it is a psychological term for someone who blames and projects his/her own inadequacies on others.
You say that if she doesn’t provide evidence than her claim is not a valid one, but what claim? She simply posted a quote. Get off your high horse and read some books on how to coerse with human beings, how to handle feelings, how to articulate yourself without being a naive, sarcastic, and rude egoist. Like many of my posts prior to this one, it appears I have to say it again, smart people like yourself Svikami too often fall into the trap of thinking science has somehow made you above the rest, made you know something that you can hold on to with all your might because you know it is impenetrable. I pity souls like you because you make it so evident that you don’t have much else, or I don’t pity you because you may be an egoist. Either way, you must realize that science is only that which has worked best for us so far, but is nowhere near concluding anything, and it is because of those people that think outside conventional science that make the grande differences in the world.
If you were truly some kind of scientist you would have understood the meaning of her quote. Scientists have alot on their minds, usually, it is something aside from norm and ahead in it’s years, this means that when they are doing other normal things in life - they simultaneously think of their interests (ie. Astronomy, Biology, etc.) and theories. But they feel bored because what they really want to be doing is experimenting, theorizing, and playing around with their thoughts. Which is the only time they are not bored. So science in effect is the most beautiful thing in their lives, not only because of its cause or structure, but because those who devote their lives to it are bored without it, and it is this boredom that pushes their love and sense of beauty for science.
This is only one way to take it. I can think of atleast another off the top of my head. The point here is, that even a simple quote like the one Natsilicious posted can be interpreted many different ways, and no matter which way you interpret it - you have no right to be as rude as you were.
I personally have visited many messaging boards, and I chose this one to post on because all the posts I read were written by what appeared to be intelligent, caring, understanding, and most of all open minded people. No nonsense, but yet here you are talking like you were some kind of yuppy who hasn’t grown out of the highschool put down mentality.
Watch yourself.