James S Saint described the ego to me as follows:
[size=90]The only distinction between the Self and the Ego is that the ego is the perceived self, not necessarily the real self, and not necessarily the false self. In society it is the difference between how people really behave and how they believe they behave. When the Self perceives an ego that is not itself, then it is perceiving a “demon self” occupying the Self’s territory, a sub-kingdom within a kingdom.
The Self is a particle that perceives. And it is a particle that perceives a self to defend that is often not the self that it is. The same of true of every individual, organization, and order in society, the “Particle Physics of Society”.[/size]
I think I agree with this definition. Not because I suspect an ontological absolute behind it the word Ego and think that it is found here, but because this is a useful way of interpreting the concept. One can thus have a well adjusted ego and a maladjusted ego - and this brings about a whole world of creation, a divide between truth and fiction which is filled by all sorts of commercial art.
In every modern artwork, every episode of Breaking Bad or every song by Lady Gaga, there is the allure of the true self - someone who is finding his or her true self and expressing it in a stimulating way - leading us via lyrics and plotlines to an idea of what this self should encompass, if it were the listener or the viewer.
Such notions are always at best poetic in their application to another person than the artist itself, as true self is indeed a self, not an other. Weak teenagers will copy the artists image, stronger ones will try to create a similar power in their own world. The weak will seek to use the others ego as a mask to their weaker self, the strong will use the others egoic power as an inspiration and map to find a proper resonance between their real power and its representation. This is of course not a polarity but a spectrum. Many get lost between truthful seeking and fictional play, and even choose the play sometimes, recognizing in themselves ‘clowns’.
From such clowning, which is the profound loss of ego, - there nor here, true nor false - philosophy of a certain postmodern type has arisen as the sophistication of our culture. It’s allowed to be a total phony, as it’s obviously just a play anyway. Such is the castration of truth - making the quest for it less than a matter of mastery and slavery.