I read on the site virtuescience.com a really interesting explanation about the virtues.
Every virtue has an opposite virtue.
Every vice is an imbalance of a virtue. A perverted form of a virtue. Each vice, like the virtues, has an opposite vice.
So there is a basically 4 qualities, 2 virtues and 2 vices, which are all related to one another.
EG
Strength - Gentleness
Roughness - Weakness
To gain a sense of wholeness, its important not to over-emphasize any virtue, since to do such is to transform it into a vice. Each needs to be balanced by its opposite (or compliment rather). We can also transform our vices into virtues, by understanding what it would be like in its virtuous form.
Its a good idea to list all the virtues and vices one can think of, and consider which virtue is lacking the most, and then contemplating that virtue, trying to integrate it into ones character, and understand it fully.
As an example, one of my greatest lacks was cleanliness (I was sloppy). I contemplated what it consists of. And especially all its benefits
Organization
Sanitization
Beauty
Accessibility
Simplicity
Ease
Clarity
Organizing things makes whats important more easily accessible. Things are clearer. I take the time to make sure I don’t just organize only for the sake of utility, and try and arrange things in a harmonious(beautiful) looking way. I’m more productive and unwasteful because I don’t lose or forget about anything as easily. I go through my fridge to make sure I eat the oldest food first, so nothing rots.
I think its much better to resolve a vice by inspiring oneself, and this is done by contemplating all the benefits of it. Forcing oneself creates inner tension. Sometimes its necessary to push against the grain, but I think most of the time its better if one can do something because they want to.
Any virtue, well developed, will help you develop other virtues, as my example illustrated.
I could just as well focus on being productive, and in order to be, I would have had to become orderly. I could have focused on simplifying my life, and would again, have to make order to achieve that virtue.
Disorder is ugly, and so needs to be resolved to improve beauty.
They are intricately connected.