anew1
June 24, 2026, 8:22pm
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I was wondering what “greenfuse” was basing that assumption on exactly.
greenfuse:
No, I wasn’t suggesting paying for sex. I was suggesting that someone who engages in work, generally, becomes more attractive
What are you basing this suggestion on exactly?
Again, a typical response from one in ‘that cult’.
greenfuse:
If you work, you get used to dealing with people. There’s a good chance it will contribute to not being as depressed. Most jobs require human contact, at least with the boss and coworkers. This can reduce social anxiety. When you approach women, or they you, they approach a more relaxed person. They also can get to know you without the pressure of a date. It increases the chances that people will be drawn to you and respond positively if you express attraction.
How does any of this relate to your previous claim:
Do you still stand by ‘this claim’ of yours? Or, have you seen the error of ‘your way’ here?
No I only like to be around people outside when I have to I do not like people outside I’m an introvert with social anxiety what you’re describing is something that an extrovert that loves people would enjoy it I am not that person.
And yet you are yearning for company. Introverts like to be social.
I mean, if you think there is nothing that could possibly be changed or done, then people can stop making suggestions.
But any solution will involve challenges and change.
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That sucks I want it to be easy as easy as me snapping my fingers or putting food in the oven or putting a CD in the CD player and pressing play.
anew1
June 25, 2026, 3:28am
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It can be that easy, and that simple. But you have to first really want it.
Tell me about it. And I don’t want to rule that out. But so far to shift those kinds of patterns has always had some challenges.