I think that there are two ways of approaching the discussion about God. One is to DEFINE God and then proceed to seek verification for or against this possible or traditional God. The other is less popular, and it goes to the experience of people and tries to define what they may all mean from that, be it “God”, in the traditional sense, or something less so.
In the Truth=God tread, someone asked me just how could such a formula resolve theistic dilemas. This is my answer.
Theistic dilemas, as well as atheistic ones, begin with an idol, a deinition of X, that is the proved or disproved according to the agenda of the proponent. If it is a theist, then all they defend is an idea that lacks a pulse. He defends something he inherited, for example, from his chosen religion, from the religion he was taught as a child, so his level of engagement is parasitical. This is the God of the religion, the God of his parents- only his or her God by accidents or his or her birthdate and birth place. But this idol/idea they defend tooth and nail, through mental manuverings that compensate for the weakness of the argument. They also defend the idol/idea very emotionally because it is tied with much that they hold dear. An assault on their idea is an assault on their own person.
Atheists often find an easier way to object religion if they echo the theists way of arguing from definition. Therefore a lot of times the discussions between atheist and theist about things that seem crucial, like the existence of God, are in fact trivial, and are just words to justify even more words. Neither side proves anything but a formal consistency or inconsistency here or there.
A better approach, I think, is to abandon the security of what one thinks he or she knows; to abandon dogmas that filter Reality. This is a dangerous thing. It detaches a person from irreplaceble bonds of family and society, so very few attempt it or should attempt it. But one should examine just why THIS (instead of some other) idea has formed in their mind about God (or in the mind of others). This means to go back to the personal reason one has for holding on to his or her idea that Gos is this or that or exist or not. We forget that we are all human because someone along the way claimed exclusive access to Ultimate Truth or Ultimate Reality. But by that time, we have already begun to discuss an idol. Behind that idol is the human, all too human experience of Reality that tells him that something animates It, that something transcends It, or that it is Self-Transcending. The reaction, similar across cultures, is a reorientation of his or her life to live in harmony with the what is ultimate, be it a Law or Will. This is the epitome of wisdom. The premises might be laughable, but the conclusions are not.
A person is influenced by his or her experience, and it can be a very ordinary event or scene that they witness, but an extra-ordinary interpretation they assign to it. It is at once both a diagnosis of their condition and a prescription for their condition. The promise is always harmony. Now, to me, even though the details of the dilemas are important, they do not recognize the sincere experience of another person. The first problem for me in theistic dilemas is the refusal to concede another access to what is Highest. The second is the replacement of actual experiences one may or may not have had for the experiences of others UNQUESTIONABLY. It is not just that your “yes” should be yes, but that it should be your yes or your no and not yes or no according to the dogma you inherited somewhere else.
Like our personality, much comes from our culture and our upbringing, but a sign of maturity is to strike out on one’s own, to develop our own personality, even if informed by our society and society but still unique to us. No one should be dogmatically this or that person simply because your father was this or that kinda person. It is a matter of maturity.
Rather than having a defined idea of God, one should attempt the risky task of abandoning his or her preconceptions and open one’s self to Reality, to let it speak to you, to humbly invite in Reality. It may say nothing, you may find no deeper Truth, but the value of a bowl is it’s emptiness, the capacity to receive rather than it’s fullness. What these controversies lack is openess. They are filled with arrogance and prefer asent rather than sincerity. A discussion that makes a priority the sacredness of a personal experience, whatever the source, whatever the implications to ideas, has at least the ability to refer to a Reality rather than an idea as the goal of the terms in the discussion. What they would want to relate to one another is what they felt. Even if we should not agree on what (sacred) Reality has meant for us all, we can agreed on what it has meant for every one of us individually. If you on the other hand receive Reality as a simple collection of instances, states, as mundane, I can agree with you that that is what Reality has meant for you. It is useless to cap the discussion to the artificial limits of artificial concepts. But it is useful to recognize where everyone is and their right to be there, in respect to their understanding of Reality. The strenght of an argument won’t change that. I rather suffer an honest atheist than a fake theist. Everyone’s feelings should guide them, not formally consistent formulas. Sacredness cannot be dictated from the top (some authority like family or society) down, but must originate within the individual. Granted, the need to conform, to fit in will affect how we feel about Reality. We will find what others we care about find holy, what else? “holy”. But nonetheless we must be charitable and grant to others what we grant ourselves.
But isn’t that a sure path to relativism? You’re right, I am right, meaning in reality that NO ONE IS RIGHT? Right is interpreted Reality. What is Highest is an interpretation, just like Beauty, just like Love. Reality will therefore support ALL interpretations about it according to the lenses used to view it. It is an uneasy feeling but because of our need to power. As I said, it is at once both descriptive and prescriptive, and so we worry about right. We do X and avoid to do Y because we believe that doing X invariably, objectively, has this effect and so on and so forth. If we concede that other behaviours have the same effect, then what is the causal value in our behaviour? All other behaviour must be inneffective for our behaviour to be effective. Yet here we are in the realm of power, in the realm of ideas and the experience has been dropped and replaced with the golden calf of our own making.
What is Highest is not…no, what is Highest should not necessarily be conceived in strict terms, like “Omnipotent”. It is not in our shouts that it is found but in our whisper, not in the rumblings of a powerful volcano, but in the beating of our hearts.