Sometimes in life you want to solve an issue along with people that slander you in the meanwhile. How would be a wise way you go about solving the issue, in particular if you don’t think that slander has anything to do with the topic at hand?
I assume everyone in here has at various points come across that, so experience would be of use
If they are people that routinely slander you, ignore them, because addressing them is adding fuel to the fire they want.
I, personally, have never come across that but if it does happen to you I kindly suggest opening a new thread and saying what you want inadvertently without them taking notice or cause. Thank you.
I think the wisest way to resolve just about any conflict is to prove that Ecmandu is alive.
Clarify: What is your goal?
Is it to solve the issue, is it to get back for slander, both, neither, something more?
Secondarily: What do you mean by wise?
Cause if you go by the standard definition of wise, then the wisest thing is to not take on any problems you do not have to. The wisest thing is to walk away from both the problem and the idiots around it.
Lastly: In case you want to do both, its not rocket science. Be honest, be open, be rational. And everything resolves itself around those 3 traits. You can solve the problem while pointing out that for some reason you are being attacked unjustly.