And why do people have different levels of sexual feelings and different things that make them feel sexual ? What is the point of having sexual feelings if one never has the opportunity to have sex ?
Doubt this: “one never”.
Get married or stop complaining.
Would you like to study a book or two about how & why to get married, and what exactly it is? It may clear some things up for you.
I am not against marriage I think you are inferring that I just do not care about it at the moment.
You care about sexual feelings & having sex, but you don’t care about marriage (the only legitimate, non-consent-disrespecting opportunities to have sex)… sounds like a personal problem.
Glass half full: Married people are having sex way more than you… and the opportunity still exists for you to start caring about marriage.
I mention two books I still own, & have not read, here… I will not be buying any other books about marriage, or any other book in the universe …until I have read the ones I own:
Of course married people are having more sex than me they have partners I don’t have anybody.
They are hardwired into us. We have no choice over the feelings, only over acting on them.
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Not now is not “not ever.” You sound rather young. Don’t worry. Focus on improving yourself daily and you’ll find someone.