Sadly, Murdoc, most people don’t ever grow out of the teen angst of being tired of people being better than they are. Instead they create alternate realities in which no one is better than anyone else - and they convince the public that such is the case. You made a huge step if you’ve realized that such an effort is futile. Some people are simply better people than other people - when “people” or “person” is objectively defined.
This is not to say that you can’t overcome yourself and be better than what you were - only that someone will probably beat you in becoming the better human. Why fret?!? You now have a goal. You can attack it in a directed fashion – make yourself better suited to a specific purpose – or generally, and make yourself a better overall human. 6 billion people - why should you be the cream of the crop?