Desire for peace and love has nothing to do with daddy issues. It is a feminine thing.
Female nature needs stable environments to feel safe enough to have children and to ween them until they can fend for themsleves…so they are naturally drawn to power, and dedicate themselves to maintaining peace and group cohesion - the status quo.
It’s instinctive: attraction/repulsion…friction.
It is, in fact, rebelliousness which is the exception to the rule. Here we may find daddy issues, or females with high testosterone levels, or high IQ women, who sense a shift in power and want to be on the forefront of this change - this trend.
Peace loving women are a dime a dozen.
Now, why would males dream of such a utopia…that’s another subject, considering the fact that peace is nowhere to be found…and what we call peace is relative peace between nation-states…an absence of hot conflicts when all kinds of conflicts are occurring all the time.
I said inter-action…that is conflict.
Existence is agon, and life becomes conscious of this constant agon. Heraclitus called it warfare…the father of all things.
Warfare, even the conventional kind, is when great feats and advancements occur. Peace promotes stagnation. No need no deed. Necessity is the mother of invention.
They say crocodiles haven’t evolved much for hundreds of thousands of years…why?
Because they didn’t have to…there was no stress, no necessity.
They found a niche and nothing forced them to change.
To bring it into controversial topics…why did the Negroes stagnate, and did not advance much, when tribes that were forced out of Africa into less hospitable areas evolved quickly? Because they had to.
Do, or Die.
Stress evolves organisms.
How did Nietzsche put it…“what does not kill me…”
Tribes that were to become Europeans were brought to the brink of extinction, during the Ice Age…those who survived were the strongest and cleverest.
And this is why their progeny returned to Africa as conquerors when the Africans were still living the easy life…because they did not have to evolve, they were not stressed as severely as European tribes.
How do we build muscle?
By sitting around resting? That atrophies muscle. We build muscle by stressing it, by damaging it, forcing it to grow, and become stronger, thicker.
Sad but true.
You people are living in Disney Land…or Mary Land.
You think I like these truths?
That I prefer them?
I don’t…but my motive is to see…whereas yours is to protect, to hide, to not see…to be comfortable.