off the top of my brainy… take it or leave it for what it is worth;
The main problem today in attraction is not with women but with men (we are all messed up and confused).
Women are naturally in the Heart automatically. Women naturally pick up vibes and voice tonality and body language. And this is how they really communicate.
Selection for a woman is rarely a consciously rational endeavor… it is mostly an emotional one.
You subconsciously focus on the man’s body language and tonality and it tells you whether he is actually a man or a poser/weirdo. A man’s demeanor tells whether he is congruent and lives by principles.
For a man, our subconscious focus is on a womans health. Beauty is a correlate of health, and therefore also the most apt to create healthy children. We rarely care about anything else unless the inside of the woman communicates that she would not being will to bare children (feminist).
One of the main issues that women are struggling with today on ‘selecting the right man’ is that women especially in college are being taught to think that they are equal to men. That being feminine is some how below them.
Such women do not what to have children or do the regular homemaking things feminine women do. They are being taught to go make money in the corporate world and to act like men.
This revolt of the female from her role has forced man to evolve themselves so that the woman can actually desire to be feminine again… I think this evolution of man is starting with Stephane Hemon the author of the site I provided the link for.
Feminist women deep down often hate men… and have an extremely difficult time respecting men. Which basically destroys all possibility for attraction.
Men have also been effected by this feminist bs… they are afraid of displeasing women. The problem with that is anyone that needs a womans approval automatically cannot be an object of attraction for that woman.
A real man LOVEs a woman.
A real woman RESPECTs a man.
That is if one wants real sexual polarization capable of sustaining a relationship that actually involves lots of SEX instead of lots of arguments.