I would relate very strongly to Annette Bening’s character as she describes hereself. First time I have heard a woman describe herself in this way, it was enlightening to me, not always complimentary, but fully accepted.
“Who are you, where did you come from” Annette Bening says to Jimmy Smits.
That is how rare this type of man is and I would class Juggernaut in this catergory. He is not a bully, he has a gentleness, yet strength in his wisdom. A man a woman could look up to. (In my opinion).
Juggernaut wrote:
Here is a word to the wise: You haven’t got a second to waste being stupid. The first guy who figures out the situation learns how to love, to commit, and how to make the relationship work, which gives him a greater opportunity to leave a little genetic material in the right package, and see it all grown up. Certainly such a life might seem a bore to a dashing crashing man of mystery like yourself. Trust me. Failing at relationships is boring, but trying to drive one to a desired destination is like taking a roller coaster ride that carries on at lightning speed from one end of life to the other. You better look for some reason to respect women because if you are going to be a man when you grow up then there is where your life is.
Nah… it’s excruciating and overdramatic girl-power propaganda. 21st century marriages are not like roller coaster rides. They are like driving Ms. Daisy rides. This is nothing close to lightening speed. These lemmings fight because they’re bored shitless and tired of all the monotony. And there is no exceptional reason for respecting a woman; she gets the default basic humane respect animals that don’t want to kill each other have. But no special kind of respect or else he’s doomed without her. Lol. He’ll move out, buy another house after the courts give her the house he bought (and was in), and get another partner.
What’s worse is that this nonsense is coming from an old frontporch gossiping cat lady who thinks she’s Plotinus when she should be reading People Magazine.
Of course, it’s gonna be some hotair about how great women are, and we better watch out because what will we do?!
Women are great but not in this hopelessly overdone simping I see in that silly quote.
Here’s how it works with women. A woman is either a badass at something or she is mediocre. There is no middle ground. But for precisely this reason great women are greater than great men because they are more rare. As modernity systematically turns women into empty superficial copies of every girl in an Neutrogena commercial the ones that actually have souls are like lost treasure that good men want to find. The rest of you womlets are just there in the background hoping some man will take you.
Spoken like the true convicted sex offender, that you literally are.
Here is how it works.
You’ll go back, because you will tire of looking at yourself, masturbating and admiring the only attribute (for want of a better word), that you think you have. Sex offenders need an audience, so assault another GIRL and after the courts give you your just sentence, you will repeat again, “but I am innocent.”
This is insane. My penis has been under wraps for almost sixteen years. Nobody but myself and my female contemporaries have seen it since 2010. It is almost an antique by vehicle registration standards. Four more years, and i won’t have to get emissions tests on it when i get it inspected.
And how dare you say I’ll get tired of looking at myself. What part of ‘narcissist’ do you not understand, lady? Dorian Gray is a self-loathing emo compared to me. King Lear, a local church charity event organizer.
There are hardly three things in all of existence that look better than me. A naked sexy beast baddie, a supernova seen through a telescope and a large thin crust New York style pizza fresh from the oven.
I have never had problems getting sex and I don’t understand other men that do.
When I was a younger man maybe I had problems approaching women but you get over all of that as you get older through experience.
As for finding the right woman that’s simple enough.
Is she a vindictive gold digging whore that’s only interested in your money where she’ll trade you up for another man that has more money than you do? If yes, that bitch is toxic, stay away from her. A rattle snake in the desert is more trustworthy than that vicious cunt.
Does she love you for who you are knowing that you don’t have a lot of money to begin with? That one right there is a keeper because she’s the type of woman you can trust your life with.
That’s marriage material right there, through sickness and through health.
Also, learn to appreciate all kinds of women, not everything revolves around physical appearances. All young men want to go after those super model looking women, but I am telling you young men right now those kinds of women are the biggest duplicitous cheating type whores out there. Trying to reform a whore into a wife and family material most of the time is impossible, those bitches are well on their way to becoming retired full-time cat old ladies as they get older.
Learn to get a moderate looking woman in appearances who is very modest, those are the best kinds of women for marriage and raising children with.
What do you do when the majority of women view a majority of men as losers? Where’s your old school romanticism there?
Sexual relationships have all become about sexual market capital and materialism, there’s very little romanticism left in this world where the majority of women have seen to its demise. It’s all sexual marketplace hypergamy, modern dating is reminiscent to prostitution.
“What does he have that can be useful for me to sexually trade upon exchange?”
There’s of course is exceptions to the general rule, but overall not many. This is the wretched cultural era of extreme material narcissism.
It’s not just what you describe that’s the cause. It’s also that the people who fall in love are shallow, so their relationship will be shallow… something where very many stupid little things can go wrong because both parties are morons. The nature of their relationship becomes a turbulent reflection of their own idiocies.
My parents are an example. They didn’t love each other and are both idiots i wouldn’t ever associate with and certainly wouldn’t trust to be in charge of any childrens. Case and point of something doomed to failure because of the kind of people that our societies create. The ones that do stay together usually do so because a) the money they make is enough to keep them pacified with fun or b) the money they don’t make keeps them together so they can survive. In either case, there is little substance to the romance.
I say all this, of course, because in order for people to be capable of love they have to know what it is that loves, what a human being is, it’s existential circumstances, it’s obligations, it’s rights etc. Why people fail with other people is because they got it all wrong and are expecting things that can’t happen. Only genuine egoists and nihilists are capable of love because only they understand what it is. The rest are in love with phantom ideas and figments of the imagination.
Only Fans has really harmed the ‘dating scene’, in making Us all think that the Other is undesirable due to what they have witnessed on OF.
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Perhaps people need to come off OF.
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When men are openly saying how if you become ‘an item’ -after the courtship is over- to not expect any niceties from them because their previous partners took advantage of them, why are they making that my problem?
Y’all want niceties from Us though huh.
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I’m done with bothering to want to be with anyone.. though I’m all for an organic occurrence..
Intuitively speaking, being a person of your word, someone who is trustworthy about promises, is an admirable trait, one we inculcate in our children and long for in our public figures—in short, a virtue.
Thus, for example, as you write “I believe in giving a woman housing and money” A promise. Yet you emphatically state you never promise.
“Thus, for example, as you write “I believe in giving a woman housing and money” A promise.”
That is not a promise. A promise is a statement to do something. Declaring one will do (or not do) something. The Siddhi has merely stated one of his beliefs here.
This is a case and point of why hardcore intellectuals don’t like cat ladies. Men of philosophy must discriminate everywhere against the petty trifling of confused cat ladies on message boards. No matter the subject content it’ll turn into something about how important women are and what it takes to be a real man as per the dictation of a real cat lady.
Indeed, one must even know what a promise is before they may feel betrayed by there being broken one made to them, no? Rhetorical question. More of a humiliating effect than a legitimate inquiry into your understanding of the question.
In your case cognitive impairment and moral worth come into question and these violate commonly accepted norms of rationality.
Justifications by you, for your criminal acts are repeated over and over again here on this Forum.
Your self-talk in your mind, eventually becomes firm belief (not just simple excuses) to minimize your guilt, deviances and responsibility.
Your need for a deeper insight into your psychological/personality traits and understanding your dark side of your personality, continues to intrigue you in an unhealthy way.
In your own words…..
“In any case, the only true solution to racism is to hate everyone equally. Which I do, and quite well.
It comes with being an atheist/nihilist/sociopath.”
This is what modern dating has become, just as our culture revolves around materialism and economic exploitation so does sexual interactions as well. Romance? Utterly fucking dead in this era and a majority of women have killed it. Modern women view a majority of men as inferiors in their own excesses of sexual hypergamy and sexual capitalism fixations.
Thankfully I am no longer a single man anymore putting up with the constant bullshit of a majority of women. If you’re a single man you have my condolences. Truly a depressing time to be alive and one of utter damnation in the era of radical feminism.
The post modern dating world revolving around the sexual marketplace looks a lot like sexual prostitution for rent, except that the common street hooker is far more cheaper than the average woman. What of humility? A majority of modern women have many demands but very little humility.
When you treat a majority of men like sexual renters or buyers with a price tag it should come to surprise noone that there is an overall lack of respect.
This has been considered. I’ve suffered serious head injury which may be responsible for the dent in the top of my dome - a framing nail gun was dropped on my hardhatless head sending blood gushing down my face like a two minute makeup job on a Rob Zombie movie actor. This could have contributed to further developing my sociopathology if damage to brain tissue was incurred.
There was also a brief period of some heavy inhalant use when i was around twelve. Friends and i would do it like every day until we passed out. Huffing spray paint straight from a plastic bag. Think the old man knew too and was letting me do it hoping i would overdose.
But if anything twisted my mainframe up during puberty it was prolly all six of the different drugs I was put on by doctors in hospitals I shouldn’t have been in or shrinks that shouldn’t be seeing me.
However, the problem with the general theory you have is that people who are otherwise normal will agree with everything I’ve said… meaning there is some substance to what i say regardless of what i am. Meaning, in turn, there is no cognitive impairment (unless we’re all impaired, which is unlikely). Beliefs, views, and values may seem utterly disagreeable, but that doesn’t imply that they are the result of a cognitively impaired mind.
And moral worth is pretty clear. What has and will be left by me to endure my def is what i have built. That is all that can be morally valuable about me. These things I’ve made are objective goods of the hypothetical imperative sort. There is nothing wishy washy or in question about them ethically. They are the tangible products of living labor and will outlive the deeds of any merely moral man!
