With the state you’re in, you may have a very hard time finding women who will seek your approval. You have never met a woman with a brain? Do you seriously treat the women you know as if they’re incapable of being rational? I don’t know of any woman who would not be offended and completely put off by that attitude.
If you were not raised by pigs, the obvious fact is that you were raised by a mother alone, and like Nietzsche, or Clinton; such people are the parent of an idiot who holds all women in contempt. Your loss. Perhaps your mother loved you, and gave to you, and you found you could get her to swallow great big lies for you because she did not want to see how mean and foolish you were. When a son has two parents, he is not forced to be a man too soon, and he never finds himself as the surragate lover of his mother, responsible for her emotional well being. With two parents, a son is in his proper role, not protecting his mother, but protected by her from the wrath of the father. And his father, if he loves his son’s mother, will show the child his role in life, demand that he mature, and take on his responsibility so soon as he is ready. No mother does her son any favor believing his lies, and no father knowing the nature of males would let his son get away from the truth. But sons raised by their mothers have contempt for all women, and for truth, and eventually for all people. Look at the great number of great people raised by their mothers, or dominated by them. Schopenhour was the glory of his mommy, but when he no longer needed her, he blew her off, and all other women, showing he was like many a philosopher and incapable of mature relationships with women. What did Baudelair say: When one has a son like me, one does not remarry. The proof of the philosophy is not how many accept it on faith, but what sort of life it gives to the philosopher. Would you rather make a new religion for the masses when you could be feeling your way through life with the girl of your dreams and nightmares, in passion and terror? If the answer is yes, then ignorance of life is your guiding light.
I am a fatherless child… and it turns out I think Stephane Hemon was raised basically by three women and no father.
The advantage of not having a father is that I am not feminized by him… and sooner then usual I learn to overcome my mom intellectually and emotionally.
I came to see that women literally need men for guidance and approval.
My mom did drugs, and had a very negative emotional out look in life. I did not approve.
Today though, my mom helps others get off drugs and actively promotes positive life style change in other people…
She has my approval now.
I did help change my mom… and for the better.
As a man I lead women for their benefit… as I need nothing from them.
My religion is not for the masses. It is for my kin and my offspring. Though I obviously would not prevent anyone from actually doing what is right in God’s eyes… I must clean my own house before I can offer to help clean someone else’s.
Do you see me kissing anyone’s a… so they will join my religion? F… no!
I am almost intentionally an a…hole. LOL
I prefer to think my way through life instead of just feel… and I create my own dreams and have the women I chose in the way that I approve.
I am compelled to give you my advice. You are not compelled to take it. I like to say: take my advice, I am not using it. Or; Don’t take any advice you don’t pay for. In fact, whether you learn to love or not, or take my advice, or not, you will pay most dearly one way or the other. So quit trying to dominate women. Women have minds made for pushing little boys into doing what is sensible and right, and a man is just a grown up version of a boy child. People do not mature more than they must, and womanhood has more consquences by way of her sex, and sexuality, like having impossible children unsupported by father and family. It would make you grow up too.
“love” is a common hypnotic induction women use to control men…
Here is how I get around it… I love all people unconditionally… including any woman… therefore there is nothing she can do to make me love her any more or any less.
Thus a woman cannot manipulate me. “don’t you love me? cry cry” LOL
There can only be one captain in a relationship. And it’s going to be ME. Savvy?
A bisexual woman taught me almost all that I ever learned about women in a generic sense, and my wife taught me the rest. She also taught me something else that I can never forget, or really thank her for. It is that love in the proper sense of an enduring and endearing form of relationship between two lovers is nothing short of adoration. If you do not love with all you have and will ever have you are not in love, and it is a pity.
He says: I’m going to be the captain. Ya. Captain Ahab with his peg leg, looking for something he can never find, and should not try to find. When two people ride a horse, some one has to sit in front. Love is a horse for two to ride, and it may seem at times like the horse is riding you, but only because love demands all. And it knows if you are holding out, saving the best for later or for another. And it will curse you if you do. Love is not for imbeciles. It is reserved only for the wise, the strong, the quick, and the brave. In other words, one loves out of health, and not out of illness.
One of my gifts is that I can learn from anyone… including someone I may not share morals with.
You don’t have to do the bi-sexual thing to use his knowledge.
Personally I will have multiple women and I have not decided on whether they should be bi-sexual… I don’t really see a need for it… but neither does it really bother me.
You may be right though… it may interfere with rearing of children which should be the focus of the womans life not sexual gratification.
I believe the truth is the greatest weapon against every form of ignorance; I don’t think it is constructive to call you a dweeb, a squid, or a drooler, even if it is true. Here is a tip from an old guy to a youngone. If a girl smiles at you it is because your fly is down or she thinks you look funny. If I were you I would check my fly and my sense of humor. bye.
Jesus fucking christ you are wrong and apparently unable to read a dictionary. EVERY DICTIONARY DEFINITION SUPPORTS THE IDEA THAT REASON IS AN INSTINCT.
Reason/rationality/ abilility to control one’s emotions is an ADAPTATION.
Theres specific neuromachinery in your head to engage in emotional control, emotional stop-points, rational reasoning.
people grow up and they engage in this type of thing without having to be taught about it from the outside world.
3.5 people again and again let their emotions over-take their ability to reason. ITS ONE INSTINCT, winning over ANOTHER.
People who have damage to this specific neuromachinery, or people who have decreased activity in this neuromachinery, SHOW SIGNS OF NOT BEING ABLE TO ENGAGE IN CLEAR THINKING.
REASON AND RATIONALITY IS AN ADAPTATION THAT WE USE WITHOUT BEING TAUGHT IT, LIKE A FORMAL MATH SYSTEM OR THE ABILITY TO READ.
WE DON’T ALWAYS ENGAGE IN REASON/RATIONALITY, BUT THEY’RE STILL ADAPTATIONS. THEY"RE INSTINCTS.
I am sick of explaining this to you a thousand times over. It meets every criteria of ‘instinct’ too bad if you don’t like it.
I’m not over-coming my instincts when I use an area of my brain ‘designed’ for emotional control and rational thinking. You’re using an adaptation with a basis in the brain which everyone is born with, for a specific function, and we use it without having to be taught (depending on circumstance. we don’t use it as much as we should because areas where we evolved are different frrom the ones we have now).
If I use anger and rage to over-come fear, I am not over-coming any instinct, I am using one instinct to overpower another. Which is the exact thing which happens when I decide to take a few deep breaths instead of punching someone in the face.
A specific are a in my brain adapted to solving evolutionary problems gets engaged.
Some women are intelligent enough (plenty of them) that they’ll view you as a piece of dirt beneath their notice, and they should. Some women will understand more about the universe in which they’re born, then your tiny brain could ever imagine even if you did try to educate yourself.
Think about that before you discriminate against a sex, that some people in that sex are so much more intelligent than you that you will forever be beneath their notice, and thats rightfully the case.
I don’t think any nobel prize winning female scientists are going to ever sweat over your analysis, nor will they ever view you as anything but a beaten dog, until you come anywhere near their acomplishments.
WHICH YOU NEVER WILL.
When you go to a hospital for surgery. Even if 99% of surgeons are men, you are going to want to base your decision on who to get to cut you open based on individual success rates. If a female at the hospital has a statistical success rate for complex surgeries that the other surgeons refuse to *even attempt, well that woman’s specialization and intelligence whether or not they’re a fucking chimpanzee, should win them a measure of respect that you’ll never have a sip of in your entire life.
Are all actions & thoughts instinctual Cyrene? If they are, then there’s really no “selection” taking place between animals for reproduction, since “selection” implies a freely-willed choice.
Cyrene should look at feral children. They cannot mature mentally, that is, to reason, without the aid of language, which means the knowledge amassed by society in the form of culture. It is very much true that society cannot think anything, but what it learns it only salowlay forgets. Every body is one part person and one part society. Society without the individual is dead, and the individual without society is lost.
Your life has already proved me right. Don’t you see that I know you, and everyone like you. How many parents out for themselves have left their little bundles in the arms of others while they went and played? Do you think you are alone. Many have come from broken homes and many have had to find their way in life in spite of disability. But, you have the worst sort of disability, common in males, and it is the thought that you cansome how understand them, for if you did not think you could understand them, you could not think you might master them, and you would not hold them in contempt. Here is a word to the wise: You haven’t got a second to waste being stupid. The first guy who figures out the situation learns how to love, to commit, and how to make the relationship work, which gives him a greater opportunity to leave a little genetic material in the right package, and see it all grown up. Certainly such a life might seem a bore to a dashing crashing man of mystery like yourself. Trust me. Failing at relationships is boring, but trying to drive one to a desired destination is like taking a roller coaster ride that carries on at lightning speed from one end of life to the other. You better look for some reason to respect women because if you are going to be a man when you grow up then there is where your life is.
…that says a lot about the quality of women you meet: more than it does about women themselves, MySiddhi - all women are not made from the same mould, physically, mentally, or morally.
As a male you want to be the dominant/decision-making one, but there are females out there who would out-dominate you from their looks and intelligence alone - finding the right female should be more intuitive than analytical, or your choice(s) may well be the wrong ones.
