I wish I had a wife. A family. Love. I don’t, and occupy my time with other things, developing philosophy, for example. I actually developed a coherent ontological system. I come here to share it, to discuss it, to read critiques to perhaps improve or clarify the ideas. Instead I find creeps like you, with actual wives and families, spamming the board with weird, repetitive nonsense and burying what other individuals have actually worked hard on. Because people like you have all the wives and families so we had to do other things. Only to come here, too, to witness you sprawl your inane, thoughtless greed and nonsense among the forums.
This forum is a rude reminder of the careless, greedy, unprincipled and loveless society I seek to avoid.
Society creates unreachable expectations and exaggerates the circumstances of love to sell merchandise. That artificial expectation is never reached and people scramble for new partners at the first hint of disappointment. The pattern of disappointment continues as the artificial expectation can never be fulfilled.
That isn’t always true. Some people are just done and inviting God to prove them wrong, meanwhile loving from a safe distance. It’s called boundaries. If the other is not ready for mutual investment, you don’t impose it. It cannot be imposed. This is also a response to your request to explain.
I’m missing some context, apparently. I don’t follow.
But to respond to your other point, yes, imposing upon others is not healthy. However at the same time denying people partners and affection is also an issue. That’s arguably a larger problem than imposition. Isolation is deadly.
Additionally greedy men, just like crony capitalists, take it upon themselves to marry, have families of their own, only to seek the attention and company of other women. It’s happening on this very forum. Married men humored by three, four other women and single men are ignored. Those men and those women, just like the predatory capitalists, are effectively denying the needs of others.
You’re actually dying regardless of it. Just saying.
You should not be jealous for the affections of someone who does not respect their spouse or another person’s spouse.
You should be disgusted by it.
Just as disgusted as I am when someone thinks it isn’t disgusting, and is jealous for their affections without their being ready for mutual investment. Gross. Cringy.