What you’ve described is a widely accepted lie. Here are the facts:
Pornography is not only accessible, but also actively promoted by those in power.
It’s well-known that the forbidden fruit is often sweeter. That’s the whole illusion of prohibition.
Online anonymity is a bluff. With certain investments in time and money, you can easily gather any information about a user.
So-called “content usage restrictions” are not just a bluff, they’re downright laughable. It’s like putting a “Do Not Enter” sign on an unlocked door.
And here’s a joke for you:
How do you separate Russian tourists in Paris?
Easy. Just hang a “Stop” sign on a pedestrian bridge. Anyone who walks past it is Russian.
My children already have grandchildren. But the principle of upbringing was based on permissiveness, with an explanation of the consequences. And to this day, I only get words of gratitude. After all, I was never wrong.
But there’s also something unique — I broke their complexes. They fundamentally have no fear of authority, and no faith either. This allows them to easily manipulate people and occupy, not the least, positions in society.
It’s a shame I didn’t instill cruelty and contempt for others. But they’ll learn that on their own, over time.
Grandchildren? Well, I see mistakes there. They’ve been spoiled by abundance. They don’t understand the value of things or money. But that’s the product of civilization, not my fault, or my children’s. Maybe it’s for the best.
In that case, I would have expected more mature commentaries from you. But if you believe that “permissiveness” is enough, then you haven’t been paying attention.
It is a combination of warmth and support with clear boundaries and consistent expectations that helps children the most. Guiding and supportive parents set limits and enforce rules, but also encourage open communication, reasoning, and participation in decision-making. This approach fosters self-discipline, responsibility, emotional regulation, and social skills, leading to better cognitive and behavioural outcomes for children compared to permissive parenting, which often results in poor self-control and more behavioural problems.
A child should be allowed to make mistakes in small ways by giving choices. So that you don’t get mistakes that are irreparable, in the future. That’s what it takes, not to control behavior, but to explain the future consequences of wrong choices.
What would I tell my children about porn? It exists. It’s there and it’s not going anywhere. What do you want to do about it? Whatever the answer is, know you’ll have to deal with the consequences of your actions. Also, try not to do anything you might seriously repent later.
It’s not that simple. The mask for the forum, does not correspond to the mask in life, the mask in the family, or let’s say the mask of a parent. Here’s a question for you as a reward. How does a teacher learn from his students?
Well, if it’s any consolation, our species is hypersexual. Which doesn’t mean debauchery or promiscuity. If sexual relations are reasonable, they fit into morality and ethics, where the main criterion is that both are liked. And hygiene, in addition. So pornography is unnecessary. It’s deception in sex. If you get into your head to teach your child about sex, then that’s where you start - porn is a complete lie, such acts are not acceptable, physiologically. You can’t do it without painkillers
I know, and I agree. The real person behind the screen is one thing, “Demon” [or Max] is another.
The teacher and student thing is a complicated issue, because sometimes the teacher does not know how to actually teach the student what he knows, or which parts of his knowledge will really be useful to the student. So it’s a relation that is defined by circumstances, both are learners in the process, the teacher is learning to be a teacher, the student is learning how to not depend on teachers. But the relation between the two will not be healthy if the teacher is 100% patronizing and authoritative. He must allow the student to grow by himself, he must force the student to understand that he won’t be able to remain a student forever, ie, that the reason for a teacher is so that we may not need a teacher any further. Once the knowledge of both is the same, they’re not teacher and student anymore, they´re equals.
you don’t need to even teach them that, because they could come to the same conclusion themselves. Nobody ever taught me anything about porn, I deduced the scenes are all staged alone.
I would just find necessary to point to them that it is there and it’s not going away magically. It’s their choice whether they want to use it or not. I would not prohibit anything that’s not unquestionably harmful, such as pedophilia.
Not everything is clear-cut. Pedophilia is a consequence of a parent’s lack of love. A teenager tries to find love with an older partner, associating that partner with a parent. The consequences are usually sad. Surroundings, one way or another, convey the idea of venality, such relationships. It traumatizes the psyche.
Wake up. They will never allow hypergamy to be fixed. You know this and complained about it in other threads.
The way to ascension is not through porn, but through transsexualization of 1/4th of the male population.
This is also why they never innovate birthing tech, why it would be so easy just to tweak female genetics to shift the odds of giving birth to more females… but that would lead to the same population count of 8 billion as before, 1 male would impregnate multiple females…
Why not? But the question remains unanswered. Try to figure out what perfection, learns from non-perfection. It’s simple. Why does God need people? Why would a demon need you? Why does an AI need users?
The Patriarchy does not want to fix hypergamy, so the world population can continue to be 8 billion. Transsexualization is the only way to fix hypergamy. Do you think the Patriarchy is going to swoop in and start fixing hypergamy using traditional methods, like arranged marriages? Do you think they want the world population to be 8 billion and more?
Talking about pedophilia, I was going to ask you, do you know the group “Оккупай-педофиляй” (Occupy Pedophilia)? That guy, Tesak, that died in prison? What do you think about it?