I’m not. I’m not turning it into anything. I’m recognising the reality of sex. I’m recognising the reality that we are all sexual beings and we need quality sex to be happy. And I am advocating a society which places sex at the highest level of importance and places all its systems around it in an organic and harmonious way.
I recognise the reality of sex, and the reality of sex is that it is the opposite of the mechanical and the petty. You can’t turn sex into anything. The more you try to change the truth the more it will destroy you. That’s why I advocate living in harmony with it.
“I hate for men to want sex all the time. I hate sex anyway”.
“All women want is to be loved – and all men are jerks!”
“I don’t love anyone but I’ll find someone just to get preg and not let him no. Is that so bad. I don’t think so. Men are pigs.” (from a letter to her mother)
equal, you keep saying people need sex, they don’t. and before you argue that while they don’t need it to survive but rather to be happy, don’t. Sex is not needed for anything. You can be perfectly happy without sex.
I’m a virgin and I am perfectly happy and seem to be surviving just fine. Priests/monks/nuns have been living their entire lives as virgins since around the beginning of some societies.
Sex is a commodity. It is just something like an iPad. It’s nice to have but by no means necessary. Some people will insist they have to have it and it makes life so much better but really, its just a chunk of plastic and metal just like sex is just some physical stimulation that releases chemicals in our brains when done correctly. All sex really does for us is make babies.
Some people like to think of sex as an emotional experience best shared privately with a significant other. Some of us want to be married so we can be with said significant other for the rest of our lives. We don’t want sex to be impersonal and with some brat whose just doing it so she can have nice things. Many moral systems are against prostitution and like because a majority of people don’t actually like those things. Sex is cool but there is no reason to dedicate the entirety of society to it. There are prostitutes, you are free to make use of them if sex is that important to you; don’t make it so the only way for someone to get ahead in life is to whore themselves out for luxury. On top of this, a “sexocracy” is no way to run a successful economy. Theres a reason all economies are “financial” economies as you call them. That is because it is the only way anything is an economy. Its only an economy if wealth is transferred.
You can always change the truth, truth does not exist.
We’re all sexual beings so we all have sexual activity one way or another. Sexual activity doesn’t apply only to sexual intercourse. Virgins still have lots of sexual activity. Masturbation is sexual activity but doesn’t involve losing your virginity. Do you masturbate? Don’t you require masturbation to relieve tension and feel good?
Even if someone is a virgin and never masturbates (and I think this is either extremely rare or non-existent in the case of male humans) they’ll have sexual thoughts and dreams.
Possibly there are people with extremely low sex drives, but if these people do exist they are extremely abnormal. Evolution has primed our sex drives to be intensely powerful. Masturbation is fine, but I need lots of long, luxurious sex with beautiful young women to be really happy, and I’m sure this applies to the vast majority of heterosexual males and for the corresponding activities to the other genders and sexual preferences.
Priests have been breaking their vows of celibacy ever since they started taking them, often by raping children. Monks have been having sex with Nuns because they know if they have sex with prostitutes they’ll get STDs.
Not all economies are financial. A financial economy is just one kind of economy. Economics applies to any kind of goods and services. Economics is applicable to sex, religion, healthcare, anything really. I can’t think of anything that economics isn’t applicable to.
You can’t change the truth. 2+2 = 4. That’s the truth. It doesn’t matter how many times you say 2+2 = 5 it never will. A long time ago everyone thought the Earth was flat. That doesn’t mean that the Earth was flat back then.
The truth does exist. Human beings can’t change the truth they can only seek to recognise it.
You are talking about turning it into a commodity and remove all sentiment. You don’t need quality sex to be happy. If you think that then you need to talk to some senior citizens or prostitutes. Go to your local senior center or nursing home talk with the folks there, men and women, because really you are missing out. Sex is not about just reproduction or getting an orgasm or getting your hormones under control. If you want that , go get a prostitute. They usually are pretty good at what they do. What you propose is pimping in a massive way. you are turning life into a prostitution ring. I have no problems with prostitutes I think it is a decent carreer choice for people that wish to do it. Even a prostitute wants more than sex from a person they want to be with. Sex is not on top of the list. hell I enjoy quality sex with my husband , but, that is not why we remain together, it does not make us happy ,except at that time. we remain together because we are comapatable .
You do realize also that sex does not last very long ,time wise. In a day you may spend 1 hour maybe 2 humping your little brain out, so whachya going do with the rest of the day? Sleep for8 or 10 hours? Think about humping? What? The vast majority of anyone’s day is not spent doing sex, giving sex or thinking sex, it just is not that high a priority. Now I realize young men think alot about it or think they think alot about it but, if they actually put it into perspective, time wise it just would not add up to that much.
So yes, you are turning a precious thing into a mechanical thing. its all about male testosterone not being released , so your brain has turned it into a commodity. you may want to think aboutgetting that prostitute, no thats not an insult, its advice to help put things back into perspective or release some things that you might need to get released.
Putting a part of my body deep inside another person’s body is a very intimate act. If I’m going to make that kind of connection with someone I want to make sure they’re happy, safe and that they like me. If I go to a prostitute she probably is overall unhappy, she’s at risk of ODing on street drugs or being beaten or even killed by a pimp or client, and she probably hates me and just sees me as her way to her next rock of crack or bag of smack. That’s why I don’t use prostitutes.
In the Sexocracy I can go to a beautiful young sexual service provider knowing she’s happy, safe and that she loves me.
and one more for good measure and because it will feel good when I stop
Ok, I give up. ignore everything i have said. Because you just can’t see… Good luck have a good life and your stilted view on prostitutes is a sad one. It does not fit in this day and age. Some yes, but many ,no. Next time you go to a female professional that holds any kind of a degree. , you might just be seeing an exprostitute that does not have student loans to worry about.
I know there are many women who pay for their degrees by working as prostitutes. There may well be lots of happy prostitutes out there who earn good money, enjoy their work and like their clients. But they’re still generally regarded with contempt by wider society.
I’m not saying we’re living in a dystopia. We’re not living in a dystopia or a utopia but somewhere inbetween the two. I’m just saying that my way is the only for society to come as close to a Utopia as possible.
Your messages are impossible to understand anyway because they are not understandable. They don’t make sense because they are just the products of you writing out streams of consciousness consisting of various loosely associated, jumbled ideas that randomly appear in your confused mind.
Actually I believe I don’t ‘know’ anything. I’m a logical positivist which means I don’t know anything for certain, even whether I exist or not. But of course I don’t know that, or maybe I do, I don’t know, or maybe I do, I don’t know repeat ad infinitum
I’m afraid I don’t know how to create a Sexocracy. My best effort to achieve the formation of a Sexocracy is this thread you are reading right now. Still at least I’ve got one adherent to my ideology which is more than anything I’ve ever achieved before.