Ecmandu: “1.) The goal of life is to give everyone forever, everything they want at the expense of not one single being in existence.”
Me: What if what everyone wants, deep down, can’t be given to them, but is something they must choose?
Ecmandu: “2.) There are three structural problems with existence:
“a) consent violation: the assumption only equals can consent, and any differences constitute power imbalance and thus violation of consent, meaning, “I don’t want this” - maybe we should solve that problem for all beings!!”
Me: We have to ask permission, and be 100% honest so they can give informed consent. All selves are others, all others are selves, but we should not abuse our power when someone else is at a position of disadvantage relative to us.
Ecmandu: “b) the negative zero sum problem: the assumption that everyone should win, or for every winner there is more than one loser.”
Me: We should not allow unfair advantage/privilege or hoarding of resources as long as hard working people can’t pay for their essentials (Maslow’s hierarchy).
Ecmandu: “c) the pleasurable exclusive access problem: the assumption that all resources should be shared (everyone should win) equally. Also meaning, while you’re having a decent time, you’re invariably stomping, shattering and crushing another’s heart.”
Me: With all the other stuff resolved, all needs are met, so no one will feel deprived, and everyone will be happy for each other. Besides, if everything is shared, nobody takes ownership for a particular job, because they are so overwhelmed with all the responsibility of having everything with everyone, so no job ever gets done. Everything goes kablooey.
Boom. Solved.