Yeah. Unfortunately, marriage is destroying the world. It’s a manipulation tactic. It hordes conversation nudity and sex.
People think it’s selfless but it’s actually selfish.
You’ll understand.
Men get married to secure at least one sexual resource and women do it for protection.
I don’t judge people for doing this.
After I learned the trick being pulled on me and I stopped saving the world like everyone asked of someone. I’m at peace. I sleep well. All the demons left me out of respect.
Considering what a Good marriage is… mutual consent respect on [ insert Joy Everlasting as much as it is possible into what is passing away … in place of steroids ] … I can understand why a sane person wouldn’t want to try it with more than one consenting adult. Stuff that pure could get WAY out of hand. Too much could prolly take a person out.
It is not logistically possible for anyone but God to have Golden Rule (nonsexual) love for all.
The best we can do is recognize every person is a person, whether we know they exist or not, and respect their consent-respecting consents. And everyone DOES consent to (like, prefer, want) different things…and sometimes those different things overlap and double as the same things. It’s all about celebrating consent-respecting commonalities and differences, and weeding out consent-violating commonalities and preferences…from the garden of each relationship.
Consent is possible here. We can be like God in terms of being merciful to all, but not even God wants to have sex with all, and for us it is logistically impossible, and a killer of real intimacy if you try (the weeds just take over).
Maybe you prefer to have these ridiculous convos forever? That’s okay, too.
People don’t actually need money to be happy or respected, so your comment is confusing.
What does that look like without money? I have 50 kazillion ideas. You prolly have 50 kazillion more. I bet we couldn’t even get through all of them in 40 or so years.
You’re rephrasing words of Jesus like you’re playing madlibs. Are you having fun?
Better than talking about prostitution, at least.
Married dudes get all the pussy they want. As long as they wait for yes. Some of them get pretty good at decreasing the wait time. Those are the legit players.
That’s why I will never date a married man that isn’t exclusively mine, forsaking all others. Well, one reason.