Marriage should be about having a beautiful family and sacrificing your personal hopes and desires for the sake of your children.
If you cannot marry for that reason, then for the love of God. Do not get married. Keep tindering or bumbling or whatever and jerking off like an asshole. At least you limit the shittiness of your life from deep-infecting others.
But if you create another life into this universe, based in large part on what you are, you better take some responsibility.
The love of this idea, the desire for it, is the true basis of marriage. Not money or estates or comfort or sexual rights or anything else. Sure those are always there in the shadows, secondary for the 'tards.
Do you want to know why real families are becoming so rare? Millennials and genz, they have almost no hope of forming real families. But why is that?
Gene mutations, plus accumulating social psychological warfare attacks.
Very sad. But what we can be sure of⦠natural selection pressure will reassert at some point en mass. Because that is the truth of how it works. The strong make more strong ones. Weakness is easier, but ends up defeating itself in entropic silliness.
Stop getting personal to others, on here⦠you aināt on here for philosophy, but just to make more of your vile sex talk, which @Carleas doesnāt mind you sullying the boards with.