This does not make any sense to me.
In my experience, a lot of people that act like they hate things actually love them. I have seen people act like they hate something and turn around and do that thing. I have even been that sort of person. Itâs almost like youâre trying really hard to argue against doing something ⌠because you really want to do it. Sometimes you win that battle, but you win it better when you love people despite their/your crap.
For the same reason WHY adult human beings hate and reject other human beings with different views or beliefs?
Their different Past Experiences taught them to hate and reject some other human beings.
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Why do you assume that incels (or for that matter anyone) care about gay and trans men?
Why do you make it sound like they would reject them on the basis of being gay or trans?
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Have you been living under a rock since ⌠erm ⌠a long, long time?
Do groups hate groups for superficial things like sexuality, or is it more that you like to slap away criticism with superficial labels like âincelsâ, âgaysâ, âtransâ?
Cause i can tell you sure as shit that never in my life have i cared about the sexual preferences of a random nickname online, or a random personâs offline.
What is it to me where you like to stick your d?
On the other hand it bothers me quite much when you cant shut the f up about what you like to do with your d, try to control my speech via pronouns, or go on rants about how women are parasites, and then play the victim when you get called out on it.
9999 problems, but being incel, gay or trans is not one of them.
Somebodyâs in the whirlwind.
Tell me more about your experiences then
Nada. Zip. Zilch. None whatsoever. Iâm sure I donât know what you mean. Iâm afraid I canât help you there.
No really please go on. What you said was really fascinating.
So everyone who hates on pedophilia is in reality loving it?
Itâs one thing to know something is wrong, hate that it happens, have your heart break that folks sink into it rather than valuing each other, want justice for those harmed by it, and actively seek that justice.
Itâs a whole ânuther thing to obsessively rant about it on social media, or to whomever is present when youâre drunk, while doing nothing to help anyone out of it, and indulging in it (or it-adjacent stuff) when you are making very poor use of your down time.
You see this with all kinds of stuff. Pedophilia⌠homosexuality⌠communism⌠capitalismâŚ
Whereâs BriBri? He is the poster child of ranting at people and acting lenient like heâs on a rollercoaster of âYOU SUCK, but itâs capitalismâs fault.â
Like all bullies with identity wounds, projecting on to others alleviates their dissonance (until they gain insight & stfu).
Sounds like somebodyâs in the whirlwind.
Youâre just spinnin around like a donkey with its tail waiting to get pinned.
I just like to play around with the notion that one side gets all kinds of lenience, nuances and excuses while the other gets mockery and snarky commentary at best.
And that would be, because your question makes no sense.
You are just fishing for biases without unearthing the core of the issue, which is why you regarded this reply
as informative.
This ages old coping mechanism of âwell im getting hate, it must be for absolutely no reason at all cause i am awesomeâ. That you are so fragile that you cant even address critique directly, instead have to deflect it with labels.
Oh someone told me to stop parading my dick in front of 5 year old children on the street? Well that clearly must be because they are homophobic. There is no way there would be any kind of other reason for it since deepthroating kids is normal and acceptable.
Im beyond tired of this infantile behavior.
The only people on this planet who think that LGBTQ people are hated on the premise of being LGBTQ, are the LGBTQ people themselves.
And they willfully do this because its way easier to call people all kinds of phobes and bigots and nazis, than to interact with the idea that you are not perfect and your personality and character have plenty of flaws, not to mention your behavior.
What are the sides? 
What the hell are you talking about? How would any of us know? I didnât even know they did hate them.
Perceived victim and perceived bully
Ok I was more seeing it as âThose who do flame warsâ and âthose who could be totally oblivious about the flame wars and so arenât even under consideration hereâ.
The tirades on social media.
Used to be common around here, even.