Yeah, Bessy, most men don’t mind if a woman asks. Most men don’t really like makeup (lipstick, for instance, is not a real taste treat).
The favor idea is gold. If he’s interested, he’ll be more than willing to do PG a favor.
The hair is a tough call. I like a nice neck, myself. Then again, I like just about all of the female body parts. If the hair is down, most men will appreciate a short necklace - gives us an excuse to look at the neckal area. I think that anything that he hasn’t seen before, as to hairstyles, might be a point of interest. I also don’t think it matters much, as long as it’s not overdone.
PG, you seem like a very charming young lady to me. I am left to wonder just what’s wrong with the local population of young men in your area.
Forget what you wear and what your hair looks like, the easiest way is to talk to this boy. Don’t plan on him taking notice and acting on it, take control. If you’re interested in him, communicate that interest.
Don’t put so much emphasis on trying to find out what to wear, because every guy is attracted to different things. If you want to find out what this guy is interested in, ask him. No one here can tell you what he’ll be in to (unless he’s here).
So, if you just want attention there are lots of thing you could do like dancin like a monkey. But, if you want him to like you, I suggest just talking.
Ask questions about the guy. What do you know about him? Have you ever talked to him before? Just find out different things you have in common with him, then you’ll have something to talk about.
What’s important is understanding each other, which you do so by finding the common ground.
Yeah, because he goes to church that means that’s all you can talk about.
You don’t have to limit to just church related topics just because you know him from church. I’ve had some pretty interesting conversations at church without religion being the subject.
There actually are a lot of guys that go to church to meet women. The theory is you’re going to meet a “better class” of girl there than at some stinky, smoky bar. I’m not sure to be honest- firstly, I’m a heathen; secondly, I’m not really all that interested in nice girls.
Ok that was funny…Are you the gay? That got me rolling…
Anyway…Im getting a buncha new ideas now. I thought it might be ok to introduce myself and then slip him a note asking him out thereby avoiding immediate rejection…but…asking him what his favorite Ninja Turtle is does sound very tempting…
Ooh ooh I’ve got a really good idea! Do you work on any of the numerous volunteer thingys they have at church? Like, the cooks or something, or other? Why not invite him to join you?
All I meant is that church talk isn’t the only avenue to follow. A church group, or a group of some other sort is just an easy way to get to know someone better than just having interaction with them in one situation.
No, no, seriously - it’s happened to me enough (probably seven or eight times, unfortunately) to where now I’m quite convinced it’s just some kind of board glitch.
Men are generally scairt of sayin whut they like.
Your hair up in a french thing, wear fishnet stockings and a tight skirt with a split. During the eating of the flesh ritual walk over to him, throw a casual glance (preferably popping a bubble gum bubble) and sit down next to him. Lean back and cross your legs, the top leg away from him. Wait a few minutes. If he doesn’t respond to your satisfaction, recross your legs the other way.
If you don’t have his attention by then, lean over and whisper: 'hey, bozo, I’m wearing fishnet stockings to church for you, and this is how you repay me? Givin me the cold treatment? Well guess what -(in a deep, preferably harse voice) bitches luuuuuuv the cold treatment - then start sucking his earlobe. If he is still not paying attention, open his fly and sit on his lap. It’s a gamble, but there might be some sort of physical reaction.
good luck!
