Double-Edged Golden Rule (self=other)

[Ichthus77 (Ichthus77 (formerly She™))]

Balance this:

@Ichthus77

if everybody plays by self=other rules, there are some who can “win” by cheating

in actuality that is losing

it is rigging the game

if you can’t win without rigging or cheating, you are a loser

if you make victims by how you cheat/rig, you are a loser

you really wanna flip the script and really win, go above and beyond (requires acknowledging self=other so that you DO see that you are an End and are not undervaluing yourself…) …and cheat in the opposite direction… and tell no one

That is what Jesus did.

with this:

@Ichthus77

The governor to extending love past the other’s boundaries (refusal) is that you would not want someone to cross your boundaries (if you had/have them). That is why universalism and irresistible grace are both consent violation—erroneous doctrines of humans.

An order that violates self=other (consent) is no order at all.