Recall my previous comment.
Work on yourself, ho.
Let’s go back to this question. Just forget Paulito.
Yes.
I have to stop making it worse. Stop throwing things in the fire. She will see the email and read it for what it is: a childish emotional reaction. If I steer myself back to relative sanity, the rest will work itself out.
I didn’t read everything. What did it say?
It was short. It said “sorry for making things weird, I will be getting a new job, pleasw don’t tell the bosses, I will give them 2 weeks notice when I find one. I will be cordial to you until then. You are precious, I wish you the best.”
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It sounds like you need a change mate. A fresh start, I suspect you are very capable on the work front, so you probably have reasonable options.
I’m liking this army idea. I know it sounds crazy but.
I want to call the recruitment office on my break.
You can learn shitloads in the army. Once you leave, getting a job will be a piece of piss, you’ll probably have a choice of what to do.
It’s not a crazy idea in my opinion.
Yeah.
Aways discuss your future plans with your future wife before going into anything solid. However, you are a single guy and maybe you’re ready to let go. It’s a good idea—I don’t recommend it for someone as sensitive as you. There isn’t anything wrong with being sensitive. Have you been praying about it? Hopefully not to Pluto.
Where is your mother in all this? She doesn’t wanna be around her grandkids?
I remember you complaining about your mom… I just don’t remember about what. She was on your case about something.
I don’t want to let go. I really don’t. It’s a problem of honor: do I have any place insisting? I see a life with her. I am hapoy, whatever happens, I had the opportunity to call her precious.
I may be sensitive for these things, but I am nails for war things. This sometimes catches people off guard.
Anyway, I guess you don’t feel an email like that burns any bridges either. I will meditate. Thankfully I have driving ahead today.
About my mom, maybe when I get home.
Would probably be more meaningful in person after you have obtained the new job and after your two weeks notice.
…hope it wasn’t your/her work email.
Yeah it was. I didn’t have any other means. It started with
“Sorry to write you here Paulita, but I erased your phone when you said no to avoid any problems.”
Haha so you think I have a chance once I have moved out. I don’t know if that feels good or hurts.
I think her face to me once she has read it will say much. Maybe it’s a crash landing turbulent version of the best possible plan. I am joining ze army.
I forgot. This whole thing is made up. What’s wrong with you?
Jk. It’s wrong with everyone.
It’'s you, you throw me through loops.
Just hearing her voice breaks my heart. I have it bad. Wtf. Leave me alone.
No but I am calm now. I think the chips have been laid and the cards played. Now we can just call the army recruiters and wait.